for the 5 Hardest Parent-Teen Moments
Open the Need Decoder first. Find which situation applies to your teen right now. Then open the corresponding Day card. Don't read all 5 at once — one per day, one script at a time.
Connection · Safety · Power · Freedom · Worth
Identify which need your teen is expressing right now. Match their behaviour to a need — Connection, Safety, Power, Freedom, or Worth.
Open the corresponding Day script. Read the hook and the insight. Then try the wrong vs. right comparison — notice which one feels familiar.
Use the "Today's Move" action. Don't aim for perfection — aim for one different response. That's enough.
Open the Decoder again. The need changes day to day. The script changes with it.